Fear or Love? The Choice is Yours.

We All want Love. To feel love. To be loved.
So why are we so afraid of love? Why are we so afraid of each other when love has the power to set us free from negativity and limiting beliefs. Love has the power to remove self doubt and fill us with knowingness. Loving our moments frees us from from the ties that hold us back. In the realm of love we have the freedom to express and be who we want to be.
Yet, we are afraid of this powerful force that moves through us. To answer these questions there is one thing we must remember. We live in a world made of energy and thought vibrations which express themselves in our physical world. It is important to understand that the duality of life is expressed in either dark (fear) or light (love) vibrations. We either vibrate in fear based vibrations such as ~ stress, anger, manipulation, greed, sadness, scarcity, depression, loneliness, addiction, depression, jealousy, illness etc. Or we vibrate in love based vibrations such as ~ freedom, peace, joy, compassion, bliss, truth, oneness, health, abundance and the list goes on.
So the question remains …….  WHERE DO YOU VIBRATE IN LIFE ~ Fear or Love?
The answer is clear when you get real with how you feel about your life as it is right now. Are you discouraged, frustrated or stressed? If so I invite you to feel into your body, into the energy that moves through you and witness the sensations, the tenseness, tightness, resistance. Breathe deeply into your belly. This is fear and it is ok to be here. You just don’t want to stay here.
Or maybe you’re at the other end of the spectrum and have tuned into the vibration of love. Are you feeling the energy of appreciation and gratitude for where you are? Do you see that each situation or challenge offers you the opportunity to be a better human being?
I invite you to share with me what love means to you and where you’re vibrating in your life ~ fear or love? And remember, there is no right or wrong answer. It is a good place to start.
Karen Klassen
Karen Klassen

Hello I am Karen Klassen. I have the ability to show you how to fall in love with who you are by breaking the chains around your heart so you can live a prosperous and fulfilling life. Together we RISE!

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Lee Horbachewski - December 1, 2010


I am so excited for your beautiful website/blog, to share in the beauty and wisdom that is YOU.

This is a timely post for me to read – thank YOU…

In this moment right now I am vibrating in love, fear popped up in the form of anger & resentment with a challenge I have been experiencing, however I am choosing to love, to feel grateful for the gifts, insights and lessons learned!

Thanks Karen – looking forward to celebrating the opening of your new venture on Friday.


    your enlightened love coach - December 1, 2010

    Thank you Lee. All emotion is to be expressed and I am glad you are honouring yours. I am so looking forward to that hug.:)

Farhana - December 1, 2010

Thanks for this Karen… and for the question that gives me cause for pause.

Where am I vibrating at? Hmmmm… at this moment with a tightness in my chest I have awareness that I am feeling some fear. The fear is ‘can I get it all done’.

While it makes sense given the movement currently of my life but right now as i wrote it, I realized that perhaps it is the undercurrent program for all that I do. A slight tightness (fear) that I will not do what I came here to do/need to do/want to do.

Interesting… I’ll be with that and see where it takes me.

Thanks for introspection provocation

    your enlightened love coach - December 1, 2010

    “The undercurrent program for all that you do.” is a profound realization Farhana.. Thank you for sharing your truth. From what I know your “Beingness” and your beautiful expression is you already “doing” what you are here for. And I believe you have “at least” a 100 more years to do all that you came here to do. 🙂

Natasja Fischer - December 1, 2010

To start, what a fantastic name for your blog/site!
Being that you emanate and exude the energy of love, it is more than appropriate.
Thank you for sharing this wonderful message.
It reminds me of Jamblosky’s book, Love is Letting Go of Fear.
I believe him when he says that fear and love can not exist at the same time. Being aware of our VIBRATION is so very important.
Thank you for being you!
With much love and appreciation

    your enlightened love coach - December 1, 2010

    Thank you Natasja for your kind words. One of my all time favourite quotes by Gerald Jampolsky is ~ Love is the total absence of fear. I look forward to the next time we connect.

Colette Kenney - December 1, 2010

Hi Karen, thanks so much for this blog post – Pausing for a while on your question, I realize that I am feeling a little fear – the fear of really putting myself out there.

I too have a blog, and so far my blog has been all about sharing tools and education for my readers, but I’ve been getting this feeling that I need to be more transparent, more open, more available, so that people can really see into me… Developing greater “Into me see” (Intimacy) within a relationship is the primary service I provide, and so I believe I need to live it, to hold a space for my readers to feel safe to do the same.

There has been something within me that has held me back… I believe it is the fear of being judged. But I really need to let that one go. I’m going to breathe into this, and see where it takes me.

Thank you so much for drawing my attention to my vibrational energy.

Much love,

Katharina - December 2, 2010

Celebrating you for falling in love with your life and helping me fall in love with mine. You taught me much about how to FEEL my fear which ultimately allowed me to feel the FULLNESS of my love.
This blog reminds me of the many ways fear can show up. Not just in thought but also in body as a vibration, as a memory and as a distraction. This awareness allows me to recognize the difference and use tools (some of which you gave me) to either move through it or shift to love.
With gratitude to you Karen for more reasons than love.
Namaste, Katharina

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